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Tell Me Who You Are
A Westernized filmmaker, Issa, is a polygamist whose third wife Mimi is a doctor and high-profile health minister. Accustomed to a certain degree of empowerment and independence from her husband (deciding to stay in her own house instead of moving into his household), Mimi carries on a not-too-subtle affair with the married Abba, a fishmonger who sends her a tell-tale case of fish after each encounter as a token of his affection. Confronted by Issa with his suspicions of infidelity after he finds Abba in the courtyard, Mimi decides to file for divorce, a move that soon brings on a new set of complications, as relatives plead for reconciliation to avoid the shame, Issa's second wife increasingly resents the attention paid to Mimi, and Abba's wife begins to grow suspicious of Mimi's role in her husband's life.
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Plot Summary
This documentary explores the complex and often hidden lives of gay men in Poland. It delves into their personal stories, struggles with societal acceptance, and the search for identity within a restrictive environment. The film provides a raw and intimate look at love, family, and the challenges of living authentically.
Critical Reception
The film received a mixed to positive reception, with critics often praising its sensitive portrayal of a marginalized community and its courage in tackling difficult subject matter. However, some noted its slow pacing and limited scope.
What Reviewers Say
Praised for its honest and intimate look at the lives of gay men in Poland.
Noted for its important social commentary on acceptance and identity.
Some viewers found the documentary to be somber and less engaging due to its pacing.
Google audience: Audience reviews are scarce, but those available often highlight the film's bravery in shedding light on a taboo subject within Polish society, with some finding the personal stories deeply moving.
Fun Fact
The film was screened at various international film festivals, including the 2009 Frameline Film Festival in San Francisco, bringing attention to LGBTQ+ issues in Eastern Europe.
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