If you do this, I will call you by your first name instead of Mom
If you do this, I will call you by your first name instead of Mom

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If you do this, I will call you by your first name instead of Mom

2019
Movie
19 min
Finnish

This experimental documentary delves into the director’s own mother-daughter relationship, featuring real-life dialogues between the director and her mother. The narrative unfolds through static, color-framed images of the mother’s empty apartment, capturing a sense of absence and reflection. These intimate conversations reveal layers of shame, resentment, and longing shaped by alcoholism and custody, creating a raw and deeply personal portrait of difficult love. Created as a Bachelor of Fine Arts graduation project, the work was exhibited in the Young Artists 2019 exhibition at Kunsthalle Helsinki.

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Director: Olga ZhitlinaGenres: Documentary

Plot Summary

This documentary explores the complex relationship between a mother and her adult son. Through intimate conversations and observations, the film delves into the dynamics of their family, touching upon themes of identity, independence, and the evolving nature of parental bonds. It captures poignant moments as they navigate personal growth and changing roles within their relationship.

Critical Reception

The film received a limited release and primarily garnered attention within niche documentary circles, praised for its raw emotional honesty and intimate portrayal of family dynamics. While not widely reviewed by mainstream critics, it was noted for its sensitive direction and compelling subject matter.

What Reviewers Say

  • Praised for its authentic and emotional depiction of a mother-son relationship.

  • Appreciated for its quiet observation and intimate storytelling approach.

  • Noted for its exploration of evolving familial roles and personal identity.

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Fun Fact

The film's title is inspired by a specific, evocative phrase that highlights a significant shift in the mother-son relationship being documented.

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